Guest post by Jeannie Johnson
Dear Eric (the Sustainist),
I've just come home from leading an EfM (Education for Ministry) Training for Diocesan Coordinators at Sewanee. Your article about reverse musical chairs (See 10/20/13 post) came just before I left, and it was the perfect forum in which to try it out.
The group of EfM Coordinators, from all over the U.S., had just returned from a brief trip, and I thought it would be a good transition back into the training. I did not introduce the exercise, except to say that, in classic EfM fashion, we are going to experience something and then reflect on it.
My co-trainer and I put three chairs in a row in the middle of the room (two facing one way and the one in the middle facing the opposite way). We chose two people to begin. Someone said "Oh, this is musical chairs, but we have too many chairs."
We didn't say anything, and the music started. When it stopped, they grabbed chairs, and we asked them to invite someone to join them, and to find out something about that person that the rest of us didn't know, and then to introduce that information to the group. (If we had done this earlier in the training, I would have asked them to find out what the new person's gifts were -- but we had done other exercises earlier that showed that information to the group).
We kept adding chairs and people until everyone was in the chairs in the middle of the room.
I then asked them to reflect by saying "What did you experience?" They talked about how much more fun it was to play when they knew they didn't have to fight for a chair. They also said how inclusive it was, and how they enjoyed finding out about the "new" person. And then they said how much this meant to them as new Diocesan Coordinators for EfM, because they realized that a big part of their job is to welcome people and include them into EfM!
Several people said they were going to use reverse musical chairs when they got home in their own Diocese and with their own EfM groups, and they all felt it was applicable in many different settings and situations.
I just thought you'd like to know!
Jeannie Johnson
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